why is the environment important for child development

 A child was raised in an impoverished inner city neighborhood. Drug and violence surrounded his daily life. With a single-mother who involved herself in a series of relationship with abusive boyfriends, the child found himself beaten with a belt, and may have been sexually assaulted. His mother was not home that often, and he was forced to sit outside on the stoop so that his grandmother that also lived with them could sell drugs. All he’s seen is violence so he imitates the violence luckily he uses bb guns.  Further, according to media component of self development he believes that violence is appropriate for solving problem.

Due to the residues from looking glass self the child decided to play the role of the person who seems the most prestigious to him, which was, unfortunately, a gang member, who was both respected and feared.  The child starts to play the role thinking he would be both be respected and fear so he can feel significant within his so-called society

The child got deeper and deeper into the gang activities and has taken on the role of a member of a prestigious gang, with whom he felt significant. Finally the child got in too deep to get out so he spends the rest of his life walk the wrong way and wasted his bright future spending it in jai as a result of him playing game .

is it true that other people perceptions of us effect our self-perception?

Reviews research on the relationship between self-perceptions and evaluations from other people. Studies of naturalistic interactions indicate that people's self-perceptions agree substantially with the way they perceive themselves as being viewed by others. However, there is no consistent agreement between people's self-perceptions and how they are actually viewed by others. There is no clear indication that self-evaluations are influenced by the feedback received from others in naturally occurring situations. When feedback from others is manipulated experimentally, self-perceptions are usually changed.

Experience can built upon iunnate Knowledge

Locke’s tabula Rosa states that a child is born with no knowledge whatsoever however, it has been argued that Knowledge arises from genetic information honed by a process of natural selection. Some portions of this knowledge might be nurtured, but genetically determined forms also may modify how we categorize our experiences.

Darwin said when child was born he/she don’t have experience but he/she has instinct to survive when he/she get older. He/she will gain experience and the experience will fine tune the survival skill and become knowledge   when a child increases a longer memory, a keener imagination and became involved in social contracts. a child’s knowledge about certain things about the world are innate, although can be changed by interactions with family, education, religion and society. This knowledge is about object and what is valued is "natural" having been repeatedly experienced over time.   

The right way to treat your children according to their different birth-orders.

  The  older child in the article is almost similar to those mentioned in the clip. Older child are always give attention by his parent. He is more dependent and usually serves as a leader. What is mentioned in the clip that does not appear in the article is that the first child is perfectionism. The video suggest parent to always be ready to give supports to their first child when he/she fails,“if we understand that our first born children tend to be very driven and perfectionistic, we then understand that one of the way we can help the most as parent  is to support them in understanding how to cope well with failure and frustration.”

  For the second child in the clip claim  that the second child is like to try to compete with his/her older sibling and most of the time this child will lose and will give up competing eventually. however, it advise parents to give support and courage to this child. Moreover, the video mentions that the second child tend to speak out how he feel or what he thinks so parents should pay attention listening to their second one.

  Last child in the video is different from the article as the clip claim that the last one are selfish wherea the article does not agree. However  the similarity are that both of the sources say that the youngest child is more independent because parents do not pay  attention to them

In conclusion, both source tend to share some similarities in the theory part. However, they focus in different area. The article only tells the characteristics but the clip also give some advice to parents of how to treat their children  the right way. 

My facts about being the only child- it’s totally against the Myth

 I am the only child.  Some people may say being an only child always feel lonely but, I’ve never felt so because my family always pays attention to me my family never winds me up. For 17 years.  my family have been taking care of me well so

In my family is very different form other family by the way my family by being reasonable and not force me to do what I don’t want to do e.g. if I feel too tried they wouldn’t force me to study they would allow me to rest until I am ready .

In my opinion,  I am very closed to my parent.  I feel like I can talk to my family about anything ,whether.r positive or negative, and they will understand me and  will provide me with good advices.   

  

 My Father expects me to be an engineer and my mother has always wanted me to be whatever that i want to be. In my opinion, my dad  has more expectation of  me than my mom does. Even though, both of them would like me to be successful In my life.  However, my dad does more so. if I would like to study something, he wouldn’t object  to it .  He always supports me on my studies. My mom always helps me find which way to go and helps me through when I am lost

I disagree with the Idea that being an only child would need to gain parent approval and need to grow up fast .   From my experience, I do not feel like I need to gain my parent approval as long as I don’t do anything seriously wrong  my parent will always love me because I am very adorable J and I also am enjoying my childhood; therefore, I don’t feel like I am growing up  too fast